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Dominatrix

Scarlet Li

You may refer to me as Goddess, Mistress or Madam until you have earned the right to utter my name with my chosen honorific.

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About Me

I always had a fiery confidence in me, an intensity that, through female socialization, I eventually learned to be afraid of. I tried to tame it by being a good girl who followed the rules. But as I got older, the Shakti within demanded to be seen and expressed. She wanted to burn everything down. She wanted violence. She wanted her power back. Becoming a dominatrix has been an unravelling of the parts of me that yearned to be expressed, a liberation of desires I never fully understood, an embodiment of my power as a wild and free woman. I equally take pleasure in witnessing this similar but inverted awakening in submissives as they surrender their egos to the wild feminine, and allow vulnerability, nourishment and bliss to wash over them while liberating themselves from the prison of gender and social expectations.

What I want from you

I treasure those who wish to ease my life in tangible, thoughtful ways. I delight in being adored and spoiled with gifts, luxuries, and financial tributes—these acts of offering to the Goddess allow me to rest more fully in my feminine energy, supported by the grounding force of your masculine devotion. When you give with reverence, I receive with grace. Your generosity nurtures my inner and outer flow of abundance.

 

But let me be clear: my boundaries are sacred. I expect reverence, not entitlement. I am not a kink dispenser or a fantasy machine. I cannot be bought, nor manipulated. Your money is not a key to control me. My presence is a gift, and being in it is a mutually beneficial alchemy—an exchange of energy, attention, power, and desire. Come to me with openness, reverence, and a willingness to be transformed. I will meet you there—with fire, with care, and with the power of a woman who knows exactly who she is.

 

I favor submissives and slaves who seek intentional growth and healing, or who live to serve and please. This is the submission I cherish: not mindless obedience or horny desperation, but worship and transformation that is soulful, respectful, and real.

 

I care deeply for those who serve me well—and I will always ensure a container of clarity, safety, and structure through honest communication, transparency, boundaries, and authenticity.

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My Interests

  • Impact play (slapping, paddles, crops, floggers, whips, etc.)

  • Ballbusting, cock and ball torture (CBT)

  • Gifts and tributes that invest in me and my business

  • Chastity cages and orgasm control

  • Pet play, dog training

  • Financial domination

  • Sissification, feminization

  • Teasing and seduction

  • Foot worship

  • Mommy/boy dynamic

  • Boxing and beat-up sessions

  • Electro-stimulation

  • Humiliation and degradation

  • Psychological and physical punishments

  • Light bondage and sensory deprivation

 

Hard limits (do not ask me for this):

  • Scat play

  • Urethral play

  • Extreme violence/pain

  • Extreme degradation

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Aside from my hard limits, I'm open to considering other forms of play beyond my list of interests.

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